Basics Never Change – Some Useful Tips for Parents

(A)

1. Accept your child as he/she is.
2. Appreciate him/her.
3. Affection toward him/her.
4. Appeal to him/her when he/she is in good sense.

 

No Appeasing Policy

(b)

1. Become a role model.
2. Be with him/her (spend quality time)
3. Become a child while handing him/her
4. Believe in him/her

 

 

No Blind Belief

(C)

1. Care
2. Concern
3. Consideration
4. Compassion

 

No Comparison

(D)

1. Dialogue
2. Discussion
3. Deliberation
4. Decision

 

No Distance

(Because distance is disastrous which will take your child to the ditch of deterioration)

1. Educate
2. Encourage
3. Enthuse
4. Empower

 

No Enforcement

No Enticement

1. Stay Married –  The type of attraction that you had towards your wife/husband on the day of marriage if that remains in the house no teaching, no coaching, nothing is required, and the child will grow all automatically.
2. Parents as on date are reduced to the financers only. (Such parents do not have time for their children.)
3. You cannot be a good parent if you have never been hated by your child.
4. Spoiled children get what they want, wise parents give what the need.
5. Aspirations and apprehensions of parent are eating into the happy & healthy growth of children
6. How to handle your child in the following age group in case he/she has done something wrong;
7. Age group 1 to 8 -> Love your child for his/her lapses. Otherwise he/she will learn to hide and you come to know only when explosion is there.
8. Age group 9 to 18 – > close your lips, open your arms. Otherwise he/she will commit such blunders which will render you to weep throughout your life

 

 

“PATIENCE COUPLED WITH PRUDENCE ALWAYS PAYS”

(Diraj Dharehin so Utarhin para)